November 17, 2005

  • AULD LANG XANGSYNE


     


    It’s happened…I’ve spent a year of my life absorbed in the world of Xanga. I first became aware of Xanga when my son began to post. I found it to be a great way to keep up with him while he was away at college. One day, on a whim, I created an account and did an initial post. It was like heroin; only more addictive and with worse withdrawal symptoms.  I’ve found blogging to be incredibly cathartic and it has also provided me with the opportunity to meet many gifted, intelligent, creative people that I would have never met otherwise (along with a couple of complete loons!) In the next five days leading up to my xangaversary, I’ve decided to pull out my five favorite posts from the last year and re-post one a day. (I’ve also been suffering from Xangablock the last week or so, so this will make posting easy!) So…here’s my first pick from:


     


    Sunday, December 12, 2004


     








     


     


    The new American Civil War – Why it’s hard to be blue in a red state.


     


    I was reading Dave Barry’s column in the Tulsa World today. In his article he describes those of us who are “blue” as “Godless, unpatriotic, pierced-nose, Volvo-driving, France-loving, left-wing, communist, latte-sucking, tofu-chomping, holistic-wacko, neurotic vegan weenie perverts”. I am offended by this characterization because I do NOT drive a Volvo. I drive a Mini-Cooper.


     


    Seriously, being a Democrat in Oklahoma is a lot like being the only bass in the Vienna Boys Choir; when you open your mouth you tend to stick out. While I enjoy writing about my political belief system in a forum like this, I am actually quite cautious about saying anything about it in public. Folks here take their conservative roots seriously and actually admitting you’re a Democrat makes you highly suspect. You may think I’m kidding, but I’m not.


     


    I’ve lived through the Kennedy assassination, Vietnam, Watergate, Billy Beer, the Iran-Contra scandal, The Gulf-War, the impeachment of Clinton, and 911 and I do not recall a time where America has been as emotionally polarized as it is today along partisan lines. And nowhere does it rear its ugly head as it does in political advertising.


     


    The recent Senate race here in Oklahoma between Brad Carson and Tom Colburn garnered national attention because the outcome had a great deal of impact on the balance of power in the Senate. The mud slinging reached the epic proportions of a tractor pull.


     


    The average Television and Radio ad sounded something like this: “Brad Carson has proposed that all elementary and secondary school teachers in Oklahoma must be homosexual. If they currently are not homosexual they must be sent to re-education camps where Barbra Streisand movies will be played 24 hours a day. Brad is also a Satanist and proposes sacrificing virgins in the capital rotunda . We also saw Brad Carson kick a puppy.” My fellow Democrats were no better, their ads slamming Colburn claimed Tom was a “Grand Knight in the KKK, a Nazi war criminal, and wants to have everyone over 65 executed in order to cut down on Social Security costs.”


     


    The real issue is that both sides are appealing more to emotion than to reason. That is understandable because elections aren’t won on reason, they are won on emotion. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with emotion. Without emotion real political change would never happen. The civil rights movement would not have marched forward as it did without the “I have a dream” speech, and we would all be taking afternoon tea if we had not gotten mad enough to dump a bunch of Earl Grey in Boston Harbor. But emotion without reason is a very dangerous thing. Read the writings of Thomas Jefferson. It may be the most emotionally charged thing you’ll ever read, but also the most eloquent and reasonable.


     


    I long for real political debate in this country. Not partisan rhetoric but a thoughtful, reasoned discussion of the issues. I long for an environment where each side treats the other with respect and people feel free to speak their mind.


     


    Now that is something I could get emotional about.


     


     

Comments (13)

  • Ack! I’d forgotten all about Billy Beer!

  • I am new to xanga, and saw your profile when I joined a blogring for “older” folks.  I had to laugh at the nursing home reference, and one about your son at college, so I thought I’d say hello! 

    Kathleen

  • Great~and dare I say rational~overview of the Cold [un]Civil War under today’s political climate. I’m new here, so I haven’t read it before. With the seeds of “me-ism” planted in the early 70′s [perhaps even late 60's] and the garden left untended, the weeds have taken root. Everyone is king of the cabbage patch~trying to outsmart and outscam the other. Perhaps we have de-evolutionized and thrown critical thinking out with the mulch.

    Yes~xanga can be addictive. I feel more clear when I am away from it, but then I wonder what everyone is up to and like a cigarette~just indulging in one starts the whole process over again. I imagine one day I will explode~or implode as it were~shut my site down~and run screaming into the proverbial night.

    Peace~

  • I am a liberal democrat. I live in Alabama. I’m retired so I can be highly suspect…with no economic repercusions I am highly suspect. Funny thing though as more of us become suspect in the eyes of our neigbors…well more of us become suspect. I think my little town has a group of around three hundred very public democrats…and the numbers are growing…kind of reminds me of that old story..the Emperor’s New Clothes…we are still a minority…but we are a highly suspect (visable and disconcerting ) minority. I just joined xanga ( by way of my daughter ) and I will enjoy reading your favorite posts….Peace…things do change…lets hope

  • nice site homeboy…

  • Happy Xangaversary!  I hear you on the addiction thing.  Good Idea about the re-posts.  It’s kind of like when Leno takes a couple days off – many of your readers probably missed your initial posts anyway…this gives them a chance to read them. 

  • So does this mean that on day five we get the funny of all funnies???

  • Hi there, I was Xanga surfing (as usual), this is so addicting and came across your site.  Enjoyed the post.  Happy Anniversary and stop in and see me sometime.  Have a great evening!

    Donna

  • I think we need a Billy Beer for the new millennium.  How about Jenna and Barbara beer?  Or Neil’s Nose Candy?

  • Latte sucking weenie pervert has a nice ring to it…

  • You know, for my one year mark with xanga I was going to repost my very first post.  But then I remembered it wasn’t very exciting…

    “Only because Jordan said I should. I am making NO promises to update.  But it could happen…”

    Guess I’ll have to come up with something else!

  • I stop by and read your site sometimes, and I’m glad you re-posted this entry. I’ve come to Oklahoma from North Carolina to go to college (these days I’m beginning to wonder….why????), and yeah, the political tension here is unbelievable. Going to a small Southern Baptist college where you are maybe 1 of 20 (at the most) “liberals” or democrats, it’s very hard to NOT feel attacked. People here will fight conservatism to the DEATH and will stop at nothing to make you aware of that. I’ll never forget getting a note in my campus mailbox during last year’s election that said “Come back to Jesus: Bush 2004.” I’m glad to know I’m not alone in my beliefs in Oklahoma! It was a total culture shock moving out here because in NC, at least we all have the decency and the manners not to talk about it if we know there will be an ensuing argument. Needless to say, I’ll be returning to NC after graduation. Thanks for your post!

  • I got into xanga the same way you did. My son has a site (and he hardly uses it!) and I got one to comment on his. And then I started mine and the rest is history. I feel really guilty if I let a day go by without posting something.

    As for the Blue in a Red country, that was really good. I’m Blue in a state that’s getting Bluer every minute (Illinois), but I do know what you feel. Out in the rich suburbs, they are still driving around with their W’04 stickers on their Mercedes SUVs and a I want to retch. I have a W with the international “no” slash through it, so I get back at them when I pass them in the next lane. I remember that “sushi-eating, New York Times-reading, Volvo-driving” characterization of Dems (I think they used it for Deaniacs). Just like you, I took exception, I drive a VW Beetle! But I did support Gen. Wes Clark and did a lot of work for him. I wrote a lot of letters to folks in Okalahoma. I was a bit put out that Kerry got the nomination. History has shown he was not the optimum candidate. But with Bush slipping to 36 percent approval rate, our day is coming. We just have to find the right guy (or gal, but not Hillary).

    Lynn

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