August 11, 2005

  • THE STRAIGHT AND NARROW


     


    The year was 1988. A long series of events had led me to a precipice in life; a veritable point of no return. I stood looking across an abyss so vast that I could hardly fathom attempting to cross it. But after much soul searching, wailing, and gnashing of teeth I did what many thought was impossible; I changed my political affiliation from Republican to Democrat.


     


    What’s the big deal you ask? The big deal is that at the time, I was still in the ministry. I was a Bible College and Seminary graduate and was a Music Minister in a Southern Baptist Church. Counting Democrats among Southern Baptists is like counting teeth in Arkansas; there are some, but they are few and far between.


     


    I didn’t make this decision public. I was attempting to stay safely hidden in the closet, but I told a close friend who told others and the word eventually got back to my pastor. In my case, my pastor was also my boss.


     


    I was called into his office and he made the following statement: “Mark, surely you must realize that it is completely impossible to be a Democrat and be a Christian.” Well, I certainly don’t believe that it is impossible to be a Democrat and be a Christian, but this statement does prove that it’s not impossible to be clinically brain dead and still pastor a church.


     


    Welcome, Mark, to the other side of intolerance. I was no longer on the straight and narrow, and boy did I hear about it.


     


    I think that what finally dawned on me seventeen years ago is that there is a difference between faith and religion. I still wanted to be a person of faith, but I no longer wanted to be religious. Faith embraces tolerance. Religion abhors it. Faith can acknowledge theological differences. Religion labels people as heretics and infidels. Faith embraces life, while throughout history; more people have been killed in the name of religion than for any other reason.


     


    Don’t misunderstand. I’m not saying that it is impossible to be a Republican and be a person of faith. If I believed that, I’d be an awful lot like a particular pastor I so fondly remember.


     


    I’ve been thinking about this today because I saw a bumper sticker earlier that read “I’m straight, but I’m not narrow.”  All I can say to that is; Amen.

Comments (24)

  • I hate election year in the church. Every week the pastoral prayer turns into a campaign speech for the Republican candidate! I think if Jesus were alive in America right now he’d be a Democrat! He hung out with the wrong crowd back then, too!

  • What a refreshing post. I have been fighting an uphill battle in my little Republican corner of the world for years and facing the heat with pride that I believe in the Democratic platform! This was in the paper after the election: Long, but worth quoting: “I have to thank Jimmy Carter for saving my sanity. Granted, his was not a presidency one looks back on with fondness. Gas lines stretched forever, Iran took our people hostage and there was disco, besides. But Carter’s ex-presidency has been a model of that unofficial institution. He has built homes for the poor, mediated wars, helped feed the hungry in Africa, fought disease in Latin America. In so doing, Carter, a deacon of Maranatha Baptist Church in Plains, GA has obeyed a directive Jesus issued one of his disciples. Do you love me? He asked Simon Peter. Peter said yes. Feed my sheep, said Jesus. Remembering Carter’s example, his very public embrace of that command, is what has gotten me through the past week without a facial tic. Or to put it another way: if one more person tells me “morality” guided there decision to vote George W. Bush, my head is going to pop like a balloon. Beg pardon, but one is hard pressed to find much evidence of morality in Bush’s ineptly prosecuted war, his erosion of civil rights and the loss of international credibility his policies have caused. Unless, of course, one has been quaking in one’s boots at the prospect of same-sex couples making a commitment straight couples have avoided like SARS. In that case the vote probably reflects one’s morality just fine. More’s the pity. No political tactician am I, but I think Democrats made a fundamental mistake when the Christian right rose as a political force: They watched it happen, ceded God to the GOP without resistance, without so much as a beg your pardon. Democrats, fearful of unsettling the secular West and Northeast, only shrugged as the Almighty was packed up and shipped South, where He is to this day routinely trotted out to endorse various would-be governors, senators and school board members. Small wonder faith has come to seem inextricable from voting the straight Republican ticket. And if you are, as I am, a Christion who remembers what Jesus told Simon Peter, it is galling to see Him reduced to a GOP shill, wrapped in a flag and used as a prop to advance a conservative agenda. Which, by the way, stands the Bible on its head. After all, the book says Jesus consorted with lepers and prostitutes. It says He talked with women – which was beneath a man of His time and place – and washed the feet of his followers. And it tells us He said things that seemed to make no logical sense. If someone takes your shirt, let him have your cloak as well. If someone hits you on the right cheek, offer him the left. Love your enemies. This was crazy talk. There was nothing conservative about this man. So I look at the success conservatives on the so-called Christian right have had in claiming Him as their exclusive property and I wonder: Where in the heck is the Christian left? Instead of a movement like that, we have an old peanut farmer building houses. You wish there was more. You wish there were Christian people shouting from the rooftops that these other people, with their small minds and niggardly spirits, do not represent all of us. But nobody’s shouting these things. It occurs to me that maybe they’re all too busy building houses for the poor people. And that maybe I should be as well. God bless you, Jimmy Carter, wherever you are. ” ~Leonard Pitts

  • let me start by saying that i love reading your posts, they have a dry humor, but also a lot of wisdom.

    i agree with the fact that it shouldn’t matter what your political affiliation is whether or not you are a Christian. and, as a member of a southern baptist church, i hear all the time things that rile my blood. i want to stand up and shout that it’s not true or Godly, but any word that come from a young and seemingly naive girl would be frowned upon by almost everyone i know. we, and i included, give almost all christians a bad name when our pastors condemn sinners from the pulpits saying that the way they dress, dance, act, or live is wrong, we don’t invite them in and help them find what their hearts are seeking- we alienate them before they even get within a mile of our doors. christians have the complex today of not being able to separate the sin from the sinner- they are both one in the same most of the time. i am greatly saddened by this, and i know that God is looking down on us and weeping for those people that He loves and wants to live with Him in eternity because He hears how christians condemn these sinners and turn them away.

    sorry for the randomness of this comment, i think i got kinda upset in the middle and muddled what i meant to say, but i think you might get my gist.

  • Here here.  And here….eProps!

  • I love your distinction between faith and religion; having the former in abundance and abhoring the latter.  You have a fabulous way of making a point without beating people over the heads with it, even when at times, it might be the best course of action.

    When’s the pool party ?

  • Got a lot to talk about with that entry, but I’ll leave you for now with the Baylor Democrat’s slogan last year.

    Jesus didn’t ride in on an Elephant!

  • I’m a republican. But it doesn’t really matter. I laughed at the pastor’s comment…. I thought you were going to say, “and we laughed. together.” But it wasn’t a joke. Hrm. That’s sad.

  • I laughed…I cried…Ok, I didn’t cry, but I did giggle a little.  I just saw a bumper sticker that simply stated “Fat people are harder to kidnap”.  I’m soooo getting one. :D

  • You as a SB minister just does not compute.

  • I couldn’t agree more about your distinction between faith and religion.  For me, faith is about a personal relationship to an Almighty, and religion is about joining a club.  You can lead a deeply spiritual life without belonging to a group.  Unfortunately there are many who join the group, but never live a spiritual life.  By the way, good luck with the pool.     

  • That reminded me of last week when Jordan and I were at Baylor. He saw a bird hanging on to the side of the wall and said it was trying to be a squirrel. I said “If it wants to be a squirrel, it can be a squirrel. It’s not hurting anyone.” He said to me, “You’re such a liberal.” Hmm, guess you’re right (or left as the case may be).

  • Double props, Mark.  And congrats on your conversion from the dark side.  The Jesus I know from the Bible taught faith, not religion.

    xoxoxo

  • Well said well said!

  • Praise the Lord. Oops. That sounds like a “religious” statement. I can’t agree more about the differences in faith and religion. I am TOTALLY UNreligious, but I sure do believe in a higher power, call him God or Allah or whatever. Just not real sure He would approve of how we often deal with His values in this day and age.

    Artemis

  • Thanks so much for sharing your insight! I couldn’t agree more! :)

  • I will never understand what the big deal is with christians VS democrats. I’m a libertarian, so republicans and democrats seem to be on the same side to me, they just have opposing views on some stuff. Why don’t those same religious people pick on another party? Why can’t the green party be the antichrist? No? Only the party most closely resembling your own is bad?
    Bah. Baffeling.

  • I like reading your blog. You make some great points.

    My whole family and many of my friends are Republican, but I can no longer support that party. Sometimes that is very uncomfortable for me. It is a decision I had to make, though.

    I understand your point about faith and religion. I see it slightly differently, though. I happen to be a practicing Catholic. My pastor is very tolerant and very ecumenical – unusually so. When that is the case, religion and faith are not in conflict. I see value in organized religion because it is a place to share ideas about failth and spirituality. I think people need to do that in order to grow. I think we need to be open to all kinds of ideas, though. I do not think God wants or expects us to be narrow in our viewpoint.s

    I am very suspicious of people who link religion and politics. They are supposed to be separate in this country. That is one of the things that scares me about the current crop of Republicans. I do not believe they are sincerely religious. They use religion to try to get people to accept their philosophy without thinking. Their agenda is power.

  • YES! My dirty little secret can no longer contain itself, as you can see. I don’t have a lot of crabs, just a giant, multicolored one that rests on the front of my pants. It’s useless trying to take a flattering picture of myself until that ointment starts to kick in. That’s what I get for my year of synergy (haha, I love past-post humor, don’t you?)

  • Oh, P.S. I don’t know if you’ve ever looked or not, but there is a guy I’m subscribed to, Ropodope, who only writes politcal or religious-types of posts. Even though he’s one of those pesky right-wing, super conservative people, he is a good guy and writes very smartly. You might want to check out his site and drop a comment, I bet you guys could have a very good debate about his horribly wrong views :)

  • Yes.  I know this difference as well, between faith and religion.  I call it differently, spirituality vs religion.  I discovered the difference many years ago as well.  I am thankful that you are where you are today.  Peace.  ~Paloma

  • Hey I’m one of Molly’s friends and just wanted to say that I love reading your posts! And yes, you can have flames on your walker haha!

  • Thank you for the “Happy Birthday”!  I like the idea of flames on a walker! 

  • LOL  I’m a Liberal Republican.  (Can I be one of those?)

  • thank you for the comment. i didn’t know that you went to obu, that’s so cool! what festivites are going on later in the semester? do i actually have to stay at school that weekend? hahaha. thanks again for the comment.

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